Friday, May 31, 2019

The week in review - May 31, 2019

Monday - "Millennials as Human Wormholes to WWII" From The Art of Manliness. ""Human wormhole” is the term blogger Jason Kottke coined for the way an individual with a connection to a past period can collapse the seeming distance between it and the present."

Tuesday - "No blog post today" I knew this one was coming but didn't prepare for it. "I'm going for cataract surgery, so there won't be a blog post today"

Wednesday - "7 Reasons You Should Still Keep a Paper Map in Your Glovebox" Also from The Art of Manliness. "7. Emerging Reason: Paper maps may help stave off dementia, improve your memory, and enhance your ability to imagine the future."

Thursday - "Fear of success #TBT" Are we more afraid of success than of failure? "The familiar cliché is fear of failure, but that’s a misnomer. Most people are very familiar with failure, and as a consequence have very little fear of it."

Interesting days



June will be Camping MonthCandy MonthCare For Your Grandparents MonthPride MonthIced Tea MonthDairy MonthAudiobook MonthGuitars On The BeachPost Traumatic Stress Disorder Awareness MonthInternational Mud MonthGreat Outdoors MonthCountry Cooking Month and Soul Food Month

Tomorrow - Say Something Nice DayWorld Milk DayGo Barefoot Day and Trails Day

Week long celebrations:
May 27 - Jun 3: Map Reading Week
Next Friday - Doughnut DayVCR DayChocolate Ice Cream Day and Fish and Chip Day

June 31 - You get a day off since there is no June 31st

Thursday, May 30, 2019

Fear of success #TBT

Today's blog post was originally published two years ago:

Are we more afraid of success than failure?


 Here's an interesting view of fear of failure vs fear of success from Psychology Today:
The familiar cliché is fear of failure, but that’s a misnomer. Most people are very familiar with failure, and as a consequence have very little fear of it. 
That may sound like a riddle, but it’s easily explained by a phrase we use all the time: “In a crisis we go back to old beliefs and old behaviors.” Since we know failure so intimately, it’s that familiarity that calls us home. 
The real issue is fear of success, and since we are not familiar with it, we are drawn away from it and back to what we know best, failure. It may seem odd since we covet success so much that we would veer from it just when it’s within our grasp.
Being successful takes you out of your comfort zone...it's a new experience for many of us. You may leave some of your friends behind and they may resent you for it. It's so much easier to stay where you are or even regress a little to keep your buddies comfortable.

As Hugh MacLeod says:
“Success is more complex than Failure.”
Think about it. Being a failure is a no-brainer. All you have to do is sleep till noon, get out of bed, scratch your balls, have your morning visit to the bathroom, turn on the Star Trek re-runs, help yourself to some breakfast [Leftover pizza and a bottle of Jack Daniels, Hurrah!], light up your first joint of the day, download some porn, and already you’re well on your way. Sure, a few inconvenient variables may enter the picture here and there, to complicate an otherwise perfect day of FAIL, e.g. what you’re going to have to say to your brother in order to convince him to lend you that $300, so you can pay off the telephone bill, that kinda thing. But for the most part, the day-to-day modus operandi of your “Average Total Failure” is quite straightforward. 
Being successful, however, is a whole different ball game. Breakfast meetings at 7.00am. Conference calls at midnight. Visiting twelve cities in five days. Fielding question from a swarm of hostile journalists. Dealing successfully with an enraged, multi-million dollar customer who’s screaming bloody murder over something rather trivial in the grand scheme of things. Making sure there’s enough money in the account to meet the payroll of all your legions of highly-paid, highly-effective, highly-talented employees. All these hundreds of unrelenting issues to deal with, all day, every day. You get the picture.
Here are some steps on how to overcome the fear of success:
  1. Be positive.
  2. Continually remind yourself that you are part of something larger than you. 
  3. Take time to find your authenticity. 
  4. Create your success library.  
  5. Learn. 
  6. Live in balance. 
Along with #2 above, remind yourself of why you want to succeed. Always come back to your why when you begin to doubt yourself and that should help you get back on track.

Interesting days


Today - Mint Julep DayLoomis Day and Water a Flower Day

Tomorrow - No Tobacco DayMacaroon DayWeb Designer Day and Save Your Hearing Day

Next Thursday - Applesauce Cake DayCaves and Karst DayGardening Exercise DayDrive-In Movie DayRussian Language Day and Yo-Yo Day

June 30 - Log Cabin DaySocial Media Day and Meteor Watch Day


Wednesday, May 29, 2019

7 Reasons You Should Still Keep a Paper Map in Your Glovebox

Since this week is Map Reading Week, it seemed like a good time to share this article from The Art of Manliness:
Ever since Google Maps launched its app in 2008, I’ve been using GPS to get around town, and across the country. For a decade, a digital voice from my phone has led me, turn-by-turn, in cities I’m not familiar with and even cities I’ve lived in for years.
But during the past year or so, I’ve become uncomfortable with my reliance on GPS for a variety of reasons. 
So I bought a paper map of my fair city of Tulsa, as well as a road atlas of the United States. (Apparently, I’m not alone in this; sales of the classic Rand McNally Road Atlas have, counterintuitively, been rising in the last several years). And I’ve been pleasantly surprised by how enjoyable it’s been to use old-fashioned maps to get around town, and country. In fact, I’ve gone to using “analog” maps as my primary method of navigation, only relying on Google Maps as a back-up. 
Here’s why I’ve made this navigational switch, and 7 reasons — from the practical to the philosophical — why you might consider putting a paper map back in your glovebox too:
Do you remember buying maps at the gas station? I'm not even sure if they're still available there anymore.

Anyway, here are the 7 reasons:
  1. Paper maps never lose power or wireless signal.
  2. Paper maps are safer and less distracting than GPS.
  3. Paper maps can get you to your destination faster than GPS.
  4. Paper maps create indelible mental maps.
  5. Paper maps provide a more detailed, expansive, big-picture lay of the land.
  6. Paper maps make you an active, autonomous participant in the skill and art of navigation.
  7. Emerging Reason: Paper maps may help stave off dementia, improve your memory, and enhance your ability to imagine the future.
Be sure to read the article to find out more about the 7 reasons.

And if you really want to get into map reading, you might want to consider orienteering.

Interesting days



Tomorrow - Loomis DayWater a Flower Day and Mint Julep Day

Week long celebrations:
May 27 - Jun 3: Map Reading Week
Next Wednesday - Sausage Roll DayRunning DayWorld Environment DayHot Air Balloon DayMoonshine Day and HIV Long-Term Survivors Day

June 29 - Waffle Iron DayCamera DayCream Tea DayAlmond Buttercrunch DayInternational Mud Day and Armed Forces Day


Tuesday, May 28, 2019

Monday, May 27, 2019

Millennials as Human Wormholes to WWII

Today's blog post is based on an article on The Art of Manliness.

Since today is Memorial Day, it seemed like a good time to talk about this subject.
16 million Americans served in the Armed Forces during World War II. As of September 2018, there were less than half a million still alive. More than 97% of the veterans of WWII have disappeared from our ranks. 
As the number of people who experienced the war on both the battle and home fronts has shrunk, so has the public’s interest in it. An author of books on WWII told me that interest in the war isn’t what it was even a decade ago, and speculated on the reason for that: fewer and fewer among the rising generations have a personal connection to this epic conflict — fewer and fewer had a relative who experienced it firsthand. To them, WWII is an increasingly distant, increasingly abstract, increasingly immaterial event in history. A faded black and white memory with all the dynamism and compelling color of a granite monument 
It is a duty of Millennials, we would argue, to bridge this gap. To stand as human wormholes to World War II.
I knew a few people that served in WWII, my father-in-law was one. I know he served in North Africa, and like most of the people who had seen combat, he didn't really want to talk about it. But apparently he got his job with the post office because they needed someone who could handle a machine gun to guard the mail on the post office car on the train. They have one of the cars on display at the California State Railroad Museum in Sacramento.

But what do they mean by human wormholes?
“Human wormhole” is the term blogger Jason Kottke coined for the way an individual with a connection to a past period can collapse the seeming distance between it and the present. To know, for example, that two of the grandsons of John Tyler — who was born in 1790, the year after George Washington became president, and himself became the country’s 10th chief executive — are still living, and that the entire country’s history can nearly be encompassed in just three generations, is to suddenly feel that our nation wasn’t actually birthed all that long ago. As the curator emeritus at the Smithsonian Institution’s National Museum of American Indians wonderfully put it, to meet an individual like Joseph Medicine Crow, the last surviving war chief of Montana’s Crow Tribe (who died just three years ago), was to feel as if you were “shaking hands with the 19th century.” 
When Millennials are as old as the generation who fought in WWII is now, that war will be almost as far away in time as the Civil War is from us presently. But it doesn’t have to feel unapproachably distant, if our generation — the last, as a whole, to have a living relative who experienced WWII firsthand — act as human wormholes throughout the decades to come. If we take our children and grandchildren to museums that memorialize the war, show them photos of our grandparents and share their stories, even have them watch the Band of Brothers miniseries. There will be something salient simply in letting them know that when they hug us, they hug someone, who hugged someone, who heard the news of Pearl Harbor over the radio, stood on the deck of a battleship that fired at the vessels of the Japanese, sat in the cockpit of a plane flying over Nazi Germany.
My grandmother's birthday was December 7th, and she and her family, including my dad who was only 8 years old at the time, were celebrating her birthday at Dimond Park in Oakland when they heard about the attack.

My kids knew both of their grandfathers, although my father not quite as well as my ex's father who lived with us for awhile.
It’s the duty of Millennials to offer a wormhole, via our personal memories of our grandparents, that keeps alive the reality of certain truths: that there are times when the forces of good and evil really do starkly collide, all men must be ready to serve as citizen-soldiers, and mass solidarity and sacrifice is required. And that it’s possible to make such sacrifices and then modestly act as if doing so was really no big deal.   
Through these wormholes, young people will hopefully be better able to put the inconveniences of modern life into perspective. To understand how, after the horrors of battles like Peleliu and Okinawa, Marine Private Eugene Sledge “could be sincerely grateful for the rest of his life for clean, dry socks” and struggle to “comprehend people who griped because America wasn’t perfect, or their coffee wasn’t hot enough, or they had to stand in line and wait for a train or bus.” To understand the truth behind the words of Ed Tipper, a member of the 101st Airborne Division’s Easy Company, who realized, after seeing the horrors of Nazi Germany firsthand, that “Freedom isn’t automatic; it has a price.” 
Being transported through the human wormholes of our lives will reveal to younger generations that those who worked and fought during WWII — our grandparents, their forebearers — weren’t better than us, in being intrinsically made of exceptional material. Rather it will show that in facing a challenge that could have either drawn out their best qualities or their worst, made them or broke them, they chose to rise to the occasion. Through the portal of our wormhole witness, will be glimpsed a reverent memorial to that eternal possibility in human nature.
World War 2 saw the second highest loss of American lives after the Civil War, where both sides were American. In fact, of the 1.1 million Americans who have died in combat since the beginning of our country 900,000 died in those two wars. And another 90,000 died in Vietnam...the 3rd most deadly war that we've fought. But as the number of people serving in the military declines...from 12% of the population during WWII to less than 1% now, the amount of contact that we have with people who have fought in a war declines.

Although, as I've written about before, the Millennials could be the next "greatest generation" as we approach another great war.

Interesting days



Tomorrow - Hamburger DayAmnesty International DayBrisket Day and Menstrual Hygiene Day

Next Monday - Chimborazo DayThank God It’s Monday DayRepeat DayInsect Repellent Awareness DayLeave The Office Earlier Day and Chocolate Macaroon Day Make sure you make a double batch on May 31st, Macaroon Day, so you can have some to dip today

June 27 - Bomb Pop DaySunglasses DayIndustrial Workers Of The World Day and Orange Blossom Day


Saturday, May 25, 2019

Your weekend guide to interesting days - May 25, 2019

This week


Sunday - May Ray Day

Monday - Pick Strawberries DayBe a Millionaire DayWeights & Measures DayQuiche Lorraine DayClinical Trials Day and World Bee Day

Tuesday - I Need A Patch For That DayWaitstaff DayRapture Party Day and Memo Day

Wednesday - Goth DayMaritime Day and Harvey Milk Day

Thursday - Turtle DayWorld Product DayTitle Track Day and Lucky Penny Day

Yesterday - Tiara DayAviation Maintenance Technician DayBrother’s DayEscargot Day and Don’t Fry Day

Today - Tap Dance Day, Towel DayWine Day and Geek Pride Day

 Week long celebrations:
May 20 - 26: Italian Beef Week

Next week


Tomorrow - Blueberry Cheesecake DayIndianapolis 500World Lindy Hop DayDracula Day and Paper Airplane Day

Monday - Sun Screen Day and Cellophane Tape Day

Tuesday - Hamburger DayAmnesty International DayBrisket Day and Menstrual Hygiene Day

Wednesday - Biscuit DaySenior Health & Fitness DayLearn About Composting Day and Put A Pillow On Your Fridge Day

Thursday - Loomis DayWater a Flower Day and Mint Julep Day

Friday - No Tobacco DayMacaroon DayWeb Designer Day and Save Your Hearing Day

June will be Camping MonthCandy MonthCare For Your Grandparents MonthPride MonthIced Tea MonthDairy MonthAudiobook MonthGuitars On The BeachPost Traumatic Stress Disorder Awareness MonthInternational Mud MonthGreat Outdoors MonthCountry Cooking Month and Soul Food Month

Saturday - Say Something Nice DayWorld Milk DayGo Barefoot Day and Trails Day

Week long celebrations:
May 27 - Jun 3: Map Reading Week

Next month


June 19 - Garfield The Cat Day, Juneteenth, Sauntering Day, World Sickle Cell Awareness Day and Martini Day


Friday, May 24, 2019

The week in review - May 24, 2019

Monday - "Who wants to be a millionaire? " In honor of Be a Millionaire Day. "The Millionaire Money Game Will Expand Your Prosperity Consciousness Forever...In just 5 mins a day you'll become more magnetic to money!"

Tuesday - "Duplication principles" From Jordan Adler. "Duplication is the heart of growing a network marketing business."

Wednesday - "Relationship Marketing Grand Summit update" A can't miss event coming up in August! "This event has gotten so big that it couldn't be squeezed into one day. If you're a business owner or sales professional you need to attend this event."

Thursday - "How to Better Answer the 3 Questions You Always Get Asked When Meeting Someone New #TBT" Don't give boring answers to the same boring questions. "Yet it’s worth upping your game in this area; how you respond to these three common introductory questions can greatly impact your first impression, how memorable you are to a new acquaintance, and whether your relationship ever gets past first base, so to speak."

Interesting days


Today - Tiara DayAviation Maintenance Technician DayBrother’s DayEscargot Day and Don’t Fry Day

Tomorrow - Tap Dance Day, Towel DayWine Day and Geek Pride Day

Week long celebrations:
May 20 - 26: Italian Beef Week
Next Friday - No Tobacco DayMacaroon DayWeb Designer Day and Save Your Hearing Day

Week long celebrations:
May 27 - Jun 3: Map Reading Week
June 24 - Swim a Lap Day, Fairy Day, Please Take My Children To Work Day, Pralines Day and Upcycling Day


Thursday, May 23, 2019

How to Better Answer the 3 Questions You Always Get Asked When Meeting Someone New #TBT

Today's blog post was originally published last year:

This post is based on an article from The Art of Manliness and even though it's used in the context of meeting someone socially, it can also apply when you're meeting someone at a networking event.
Almost every time you meet someone new, there are three questions you will probably have to answer during your conversation:
  • What’s your name?
  • What do you do?
  • Where are you from?
These three questions are so common, and you answer them so frequently, that it is very easy to get in the habit of answering them the same way, again and again, without thinking. You probably get bored with your own answers, so you don’t put energy and effort into offering them in an interesting way. “Hi, I’m Joe. I work in public relations for an energy company downtown, and I’m from the Midwest but moved here a couple years ago.” Zzzzz…
You might even feel like Bill Murray’s character in Groundhog Day – going through the exact same routine time in and time out. It may even contribute to why so many of us dread meeting new people.
Yet it’s worth upping your game in this area; how you respond to these three common introductory questions can greatly impact your first impression, how memorable you are to a new acquaintance, and whether your relationship ever gets past first base, so to speak.
In this post I will outline 6 specific strategies for answering these almost inescapable questions in ways that are distinct and memorable. I will also share advice from experts in communications, linguistics, and networking about how you can stand out from the pack.
He then goes on to talk about 6 Ways to Make Your Answers More Memorable, which are:
  1. Repeat Your Answer.
  2. Ask a Question.
  3. Tell a Story.
  4. Be Clear and Avoid Trying to Be Overly Clever.
  5. Create a Personal Association.
  6. Find Your Inner Black Sheep
This list is then followed by several examples of how you can make your answers more memorable. Take a few minutes to check it out and you may find yourself looking for more people to introduce yourself to!

This will work well in conjunction with asking better questions

Interesting days


Today- Turtle DayWorld Product DayTitle Track Day and Lucky Penny Day

Tomorrow - Tiara DayAviation Maintenance Technician DayBrother’s DayEscargot Day and Don’t Fry Day

Next Thursday - Loomis DayWater a Flower Day and Mint Julep Day

Week long celebrations:
May 27 - Jun 3: Map Reading Week
June 23 - BoxKart Bash Day, Let It Go Day, Public Service Day, Typewriter Day, International Widows Day and International Women in Engineering Day

Wednesday, May 22, 2019

Relationship Marketing Grand Summit update

I wrote about the Relationship Marketing Grand Summit here, but the schedule has changed. Back in March when I last wrote about it the RMGS was only one day but now it's been extended to 2 full days, Thursday and Friday, August 8th & 9th. Here's a breakdown of the speakers...most of whom have been featured on the Relationship Marketing podcast.


There are links to the interviews with Mark Hunter, Larry Levine, and Jeb Blount in the blog post linked above but you can go in and listen to all of them from any of the pages. Take some time to listen to some of the interviews and discover the caliber of people who will be sharing their knowledge and wisdom.

I've heard Kody Bateman, Jordan Adler and Darla DiGrande-Aguilera speak many times, and I've seen Gayle Zientek in person once and Jay McHugh three times.

This event has gotten so big that it couldn't be squeezed into one day. If you're a business owner or sales professional you need to attend this event. Tickets are available here. I'll be there and I hope to see you there!

Interesting days



Tomorrow - Turtle DayWorld Product DayTitle Track Day and Lucky Penny Day

 Week long celebrations:
May 20 - 26: Italian Beef Week
Next Wednesday - Biscuit DaySenior Health & Fitness DayLearn About Composting Day and Put A Pillow On Your Fridge Day

Week long celebrations:
May 27 - Jun 3: Map Reading Week
June 22 - Onion Rings DayChocolate Éclair DayPositive Media Day and B Kinder Day

Tuesday, May 21, 2019

Duplication principles

Duplication is the heart of growing a network marketing business. In his weekly SendOutCards call Jordan Adler addresses duplication. Although this is slanted towards SOC, the principles apply to any business.

First Jordan talks about making the "big money" and although some people are looking for big money, most people can't relate to that. In fact, most people are really looking for a few hundred to a few thousand dollars a month.

He then talks about duplication is something that you create. The company doesn't create it, your upline doesn't create it...you create it.

One of the best ways to duplicate is to invite people to events. Anyone can invite people to events that are put on by the company or someone else in the organization.

I'm sure you've heard about the "3 who get 3 who get 3"


We all know that it never works out this way. A better plan is to keep adding new customers and affiliates every month...if you bring in 2 affiliates a month for 4 years, you'll have 96 affiliates under you.

Out of this 96, you'll find a few key people...the ones who take initiative to grow the business. When you get 4 key people in one leg, this is what Jordan calls a freedom leg. You'll probably make enough money from this one leg to cover your car payment. When you get a second freedom leg, you'll also be able to cover your rent or mortgage. A third leg? You no longer need a job! Your residual income is covering your living expenses. This is financial freedom...you no longer need to trade your time for money. Although at this point, your discretionary income isn't very high. The fourth leg will give you discretionary income. And the fifth leg will bring you wealth. The last I heard, Jordan had 7 freedom legs bringing him over a million dollars a year.

On next week's call, Jordan will be giving examples of things you can do to create duplication in your business...and I'll write about it next Tuesday.

Interesting days



Tomorrow - Goth DayMaritime Day and Harvey Milk Day

 Week long celebrations:
May 20 - 26: Italian Beef Week
Next Tuesday - Hamburger DayAmnesty International DayBrisket Day and Menstrual Hygiene Day

Week long celebrations:
May 27 - Jun 3: Map Reading Week
June 21 - Take Your Dog To Work DayWorld Music DayGo Skateboarding DayDaylight Appreciation DayWorld Humanist DaySelfie DayMake Music DayInternational Yoga DayWorld Giraffe DayPeaches ‘N’ Cream DayWorld Motorcycle Day and Take Back the Lunch Break Day


Monday, May 20, 2019

Who wants to be a millionaire?

That was like the biggest show on TV just a few years ago. According to Wikipedia:
Who Wants to Be a Millionaire (often informally called Millionaire) is an American television game show based on the same-titled British program and developed for the United States by Michael Davies. The show features a quiz competition in which contestants attempt to win a top prize of $1,000,000 by answering a series of multiple-choice questions of increasing difficulty (although, for a time, most of the questions were of random difficulty). The program has endured as one of the longest-running and most successful international variants in the Who Wants to Be a Millionaire? franchise. 
The original U.S. version aired on ABC from August 16, 1999, to June 27, 2002, and was hosted by Regis Philbin. The daily syndicated version of the show began airing on September 16, 2002, and was hosted for eleven seasons by Meredith Vieira until May 31, 2013. Later hosts included Cedric the Entertainer in the 2013–14 season, Terry Crews in the following season (2014–15), and Chris Harrison, who began hosting on September 14, 2015. On May 17, 2019, it was reported that the syndicated show has been canceled, with a final episode set for May 31, 2019. 
As the first U.S. network game show to offer a million-dollar top prize, the show made television history by becoming one of the highest-rated game shows in the history of American television. The U.S. Millionaire has won seven Daytime Emmy Awards, and TV Guide ranked it No. 6 in its 2013 list of the 60 greatest game shows of all time.
There's still time to catch the final episode!

Even though this is really interesting, this post is really about Be a Millionaire Day and to tell you about the Millionaire Money game. From the Days of the Year website:
If you’re an aspiring millionaire, and who isn’t, why not celebrate Be a Millionaire Day by following the advice of the most successful sports performance coaches. Use visualization techniques to see yourself surrounded by luxury, free of monetary concerns, and living your life on your terms. Then get down to business – get financial advice, find extra sources of income, save, live within your means and commit to becoming a millionaire.
And the Millionaire Money game helps with the visualization:
"The Millionaire Money Game Will Expand Your Prosperity Consciousness Forever...
In just 5 mins a day you'll become more magnetic to money!"
It costs nothing to sign up and you'll receive your first letter from the Universe in about 10 minutes. Each day, for 16 days, you'll receive a new letter from the Universe with increasing amounts of imaginary money. The idea is to pretend to spend that money on something (note...it's just imaginary money, so don't really try to spend it). The first time I played, I went to an outdoor furniture store and picked out some furniture I liked. I wrote the amount down in a checkbook register just for that purpose.

After a few days, I drove down to Scotts Valley and went to an exotic car dealership to "buy" this Jaguar XKE:


Here's what the first letter says:
Dear Rick 

Today's deposit: 


____________________________________________ 

Amount: $1,000 - One Thousand Dollars 

Deposited into: Your Account 


From: The Bank of The Universe 

____________________________________________ 

Since you are so loved and cherished, we - at the 

Bank of the Universe - have decided to deposit 
money into your account for the rest of your life. 

This is not a loan and we do not expect this 

money to be paid back - it is our gift to you, 
just for being you! 

All we ask, is that as you go through your day, 

you look for ways to spend this money that will 
give you joy. 

You may use this money in any way you desire. 


It is preferable that you SPEND the money, rather 

than saving it for later, because your prosperity 
is unlimited. We will continue to send you more 
and more money each week. 

It is also preferable that initially you spend 

this money on yourself - or if it makes you feel 
better start to pay off some debts - because 
that's what manifesting and attracting is all 
about - it's your FEELINGS that create. 

Get used to spending on yourself, feel how good 

it feels to spend on yourself, feel the decadence 
of spending on yourself - knowing more and more is 
coming your way. 

This is just the beginning. We would advise that 

you take some time over the next week to keep your 
eyes open for things that 'make your heart sing'. 

When you see something you would like to have, 

write it down, cut it out, make a note, so that as 
the money continues to flow to you, you have a 
list you can easily bring to mind of things to 
purchase.
You'll receive one of these emails every day for 16 days, with the last email being a deposit of $1,000,000!

So, join me in visualizing being a millionaire by playing the game.

Interesting days



Tomorrow - I Need A Patch For That DayWaitstaff DayRapture Party Day and Memo Day

Next Monday - Sun Screen Day and Cellophane Tape Day

Week long celebrations:
May 27 - Jun 3: Map Reading Week
June 20 - Ice Cream Soda DayAmerican Eagle DayDump The Pump DayWorld Productivity DayVanilla Milkshake Day and Kouign Amann Day


Saturday, May 18, 2019

Your weekend guide to interesting days - May 18, 2019

Next week


Sunday -  International Nurses DayLimerick DayNutty Fudge DayOdometer Day and Fibromyalgia Awareness Day

Monday - Accounting DayTop Gun DayFrog Jumping DayLeprechaun DayWorld Bellydance Day and World Cocktail Day

Tuesday - Chicken Dance Day

Wednesday - Chocolate Chip DayNumeracy DayStraw Hat DayNylon Stockings DayVascular Birthmarks Awareness Day and World Facilities Management Day


Yesterday - World Baking DayBike To Work DayPack Rat DayEndangered Species DayPizza Party DayInternational Virtual Assistants DayWorld Hypertension DayWorld Telecommunications DayShades DayPinot Grigio DayNeurofibromatosis Awareness DayInternational Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia and Work From Home Day

Today - World Whisky DayPlant a Lemon Tree DayWorld Fiddle DayLearn To Swim DayNo Dirty Dishes DayVisit Your Relatives Day and Museum Day

Next week


Tomorrow - May Ray Day

Monday - Pick Strawberries DayBe a Millionaire DayWeights & Measures DayQuiche Lorraine DayClinical Trials Day and World Bee Day

Tuesday - I Need A Patch For That DayWaitstaff DayRapture Party Day and Memo Day

Wednesday - Goth DayMaritime Day and Harvey Milk Day

Thursday - Turtle Day, World Product Day, Title Track Day and Lucky Penny Day

Friday - Tiara DayAviation Maintenance Technician DayBrother’s DayEscargot Day and Don’t Fry Day

Saturday - Tap Dance Day, Towel DayWine Day and Geek Pride Day
 
 Week long celebrations:
May 20 - 26: Italian Beef Week

Next month


June 12 - Superman DayRed Rose DayLoving DayPeanut Butter Cookie Day and International Falafel Day

June 13 - Ice Cream Soda DayAmerican Eagle DayDump The Pump DayWorld Productivity DayVanilla Milkshake Day and Kouign Amann Day

June 14 - Cupcake DayWorld Blood Donor DayFlip-Flop DayFlag DayBourbon Day and International Bath Day

June 15 - Nature Photography DayWorld Juggling DaySmile Power DayMagna Carta DayLobster DayWorld Elder Abuse Awareness Day and Beer Day Britain

June 16 - Fudge Day, Turkey Lovers’ DayFresh Veggies Day and World Tapas Day

June 17 - Eat Your Vegetables DayApple Strudel Day and Tessellation Day
 
June 18 - International Picnic DayGo Fishing DayInternational Sushi DayInternational Panic DaySplurge DayCherry Tart Day and Clean Your Aquarium Day


Friday, May 17, 2019

The week in review - May 17, 2019

Monday - "Kindness and Prosperity Go Together and Here’s Why" From BiggerPockets. "Basically, Beyond's business is 90% referral based because in the last couple of years he's focused on building relationships not just making money."

Tuesday - "Ramblin' Post" A space filler post. "I actually had another blog post for today but I wasn't going to be able to do it justice with the time I had available, so instead I'm pretty much ramblin' on about nothing."

Wednesday - "Obtain. Retain. Regain" No...this isn't the post I postponed from yesterday. "If you'd like to find out more about how to use relationship marketing to grow your business, ask to join my Facebook group."

Thursday - "A Better Way to Network #TBT" Networking with weak ties (which aren't the opposite of power ties). "Where can you find weak ties? They're all around us...anybody that you've ever met but you don't interact with on a regular basis is a weak tie. An excellent source of weak ties is Facebook. Most of your FB friends can be considered weak ties. And many of those could also be dormant ties...someone who was once close to you but now you're only Facebook friends."

Interesting days


Today - World Baking DayBike To Work DayPack Rat DayEndangered Species DayPizza Party DayInternational Virtual Assistants DayWorld Hypertension DayWorld Telecommunications DayShades DayPinot Grigio DayNeurofibromatosis Awareness DayInternational Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia and Work From Home Day

Tomorrow - World Whisky DayPlant a Lemon Tree DayWorld Fiddle DayLearn To Swim DayNo Dirty Dishes DayVisit Your Relatives Day and Museum Day

Next Friday - Tiara DayAviation Maintenance Technician DayBrother’s DayEscargot Day and Don’t Fry Day

Week long celebrations:
May 20 - May 26: Italian Beef Week
June 17 - Eat Your Vegetables DayApple Strudel Day and Tessellation Day


Thursday, May 16, 2019

A Better Way to Network #TBT

Today's blog post was originally published last year:

This post is the 2nd of two parts on networking, be sure to check out the first part here. Today's blog post is based on a podcast from The Art of Manliness.

The podcast interviews David Burkus, the author of "Friend of a Friend". One of the first things that David discusses is weak ties, which is something that I've written about, and dormant ties which were strong ties that may have weakened over time or distance...such as a former college roommate or friends from the military. I actually work with one of my friends from the military but I've also lost touch with some that even though we work for the same company, we're not in the same office anymore.

Where can you find weak ties? They're all around us...anybody that you've ever met but you don't interact with on a regular basis is a weak tie. An excellent source of weak ties is Facebook. Most of your FB friends can be considered weak ties. And many of those could also be dormant ties...someone who was once close to you but now you're only Facebook friends.

Here are some of the topics discussed in the podcast:
  • The common approach people take towards networking 
  • Why traditional networking methods don’t work
  • How David’s “friend of a friend” approach to networking flips that old model on its head 
  • Recognizing the networks you already have
  • What are weak and dormant ties? Why are they more powerful than strong ties?
  • Managing your weak and dormant ties in order to keep them alive 
  • How to find the structural holes in your network 
  • Why “silos” are important 
  • What extroverts and introverts can learn from each other in regards to networking
  • What makes for a “super connector”
  • How do you manage your network once it starts to grow?
  • Why managing your relationships needs to be intentional 
  • How to cultivate a diverse network 
  • The idea of multiplexity in our networks — why our connections can be relevant in multiple contexts and facets 
  • The perhaps funny idea that should be the guiding principle of networking 
  • The “Don’t Believe the Hype” Principle
Listen to the podcast and find out some ways that you can strengthen your network.

Interesting days



Next Thursday - Turtle Day, World Product Day, Title Track Day and Lucky Penny Day This song is the title track for the "Happy Together" album by The Turtles


Week long celebrations:


Wednesday, May 15, 2019

Obtain. Retain. Regain

Most business owners and sales people concentrate on obtaining new customers, as opposed to retaining their current customers or regaining their former customers.

I've talked about this before but it's been brought to the top of my mind because I went to a BNI Visitors Day last week in Modesto, and I'm going to another next week in Walnut Creek.

BNI is an excellent organization to help you grow your business...and we all need new customers in our businesses. But if you're not spending money to keep your existing customers and these new customers that you bring into your business, you're wasting your money.

SendOutCards can help you retain your existing customers, regain your former customers, and obtain new customers. Check out the post where I talk about the 60:30:10 Marketing Plan. And add it to your BNI membership. (The numbers in the post are a little outdated...postage has gone from 50 cents to 55 cents, making the total $1,850 per year (including tax), which comes out to $1.85 per card).

If you'd like to find out more about how to use relationship marketing to grow your business, ask to join my Facebook group.

Interesting days


Today - Chocolate Chip DayNumeracy DayStraw Hat DayNylon Stockings DayVascular Birthmarks Awareness Day and World Facilities Management Day


Next Wednesday - Goth DayMaritime Day and Harvey Milk Day

Week long celebrations:
May 20 - May 26: Italian Beef Week
June 15 - Nature Photography DayWorld Juggling DaySmile Power DayMagna Carta DayLobster DayWorld Elder Abuse Awareness Day and Beer Day Britain


Tuesday, May 14, 2019

Ramblin' Post

Some of you may remember the song "Ramblin' Rose" but whether you do or not, here it is:


What has this got to do with blog posts? Nothing really, other than the fact that today's post is going to be ramblin' a little bit.

I actually had another blog post for today but I wasn't going to be able to do it justice with the time I had available, so instead I'm pretty much ramblin' on about nothing. Pretty much like that famous TV show that was about nothing. From Wikipedia:
Seinfeld is an American live-action sitcom created by Larry David and Jerry Seinfeld for the National Broadcasting Company. Set predominantly in an apartment building in Manhattan's Upper West Side in New York City, the show features a handful of Jerry Seinfeld's (as a fictionalized version of himself) friends and acquaintances, including best friend George Costanza (Jason Alexander), friend and former girlfriend Elaine Benes (Julia Louis-Dreyfus), and neighbor across the hall Cosmo Kramer (Michael Richards). It is often described as being "a show about nothing", as many of its episodes are about the minutiae of daily life.
So, I guess that's what today's blog post is...the minutiae of daily life.

Tomorrow I should be back on track.

Interesting days



Tomorrow - Chocolate Chip DayNumeracy DayStraw Hat DayNylon Stockings DayVascular Birthmarks Awareness Day and World Facilities Management Day

Next Tuesday - I Need A Patch For That DayWaitstaff DayRapture Party Day and Memo Day

Week long celebrations:
May 20 - May 26: Italian Beef Week
June 14 - Cupcake DayWorld Blood Donor DayFlip-Flop DayFlag DayBourbon Day and International Bath Day


Monday, May 13, 2019

Kindness and Prosperity Go Together and Here’s Why

Today's blog post is from an article on BiggerPockets:
When I started in the multifamily sector, I wasn’t really equipped with enough knowledge about buying apartment complexes and improving the NOI and cap rates of these properties. Instead, I was able to acquire knowledge through a great deal of reading. These were not just books about real estate, but also books that touch on the human spirit. Aside from the practical knowledge in making money, I also learned the value of kindness.
People think that wealth-generation is about being smart and resourceful when it comes to finding the best deals. It’s true that, in the real estate sector, you will have to be very clever in order to negotiate the best possible terms. However, this is not what the sector is about.
In my years as a professional in the real estate industry, I realized that kindness is just as important as having the guts and brilliance of a businessman. I learned this when I first started gathering the resources I need for my property acquisitions.
At a time when banks were unable to loan a large amount because of a recession, I was lucky to have friends and family members who were willing to lend me cash. I was able to build a multifamily syndication from there. Before I knew it, I closed my first deal. It’s not just because I was able to show my knowledge about the sector, but it’s also because I showed compassion and kindness.
Indeed, the best things in life are possible if you show kindness to others. There are no tips or strategies to learn because I always believe that you can’t teach kindness. You can only feel it and make others feel it.
When you’re out there making a name for yourself, remember these essential nuggets of advice.

You are not alone

When you start to think more about generating wealth, you become more focused on yourself and your ego. You will always say “I want this” and “I want that”, but you have to remember that everything in life isn’t possible without the interventions of others. Your friends and family are there to help you, so show them kindness and guide them in bettering themselves.

People don’t always have ulterior motives

In business, you are often told to deal with people carefully. You won’t know if someone has a hidden agenda until it’s too late. It’s sad to think that while there are kind and compassionate people, there are also people who are willing to pull you down. It’s okay to be safe all the time, but not to a point that you consider everyone a potential malefactor. As much as possible, treat everyone equally and don’t assume that the people you meet are out to swindle you.

You can build strong relationships through kindness

When you are being kind to others, you are also bringing out the other positive traits that you have. These traits will no doubt be instrumental in forming valuable relationships. Whether you are dealing with investors, brokers, lawyers, teachers, or just about anyone who can help you reach your dreams, you need to show kindness to them and prove that you are also a great part of their lives.
Kindness is all about bringing value not only to yourself, but to others as well. So, go out there and show your compassion to the world!
Kody Bateman, the founder of SendOutCards, interviewed a real estate investor a while back. Here is the interview (you can watch the interview by clicking on the link).

Basically, Beyond's business is 90% referral based because in the last couple of years he's focused on building relationships not just making money.

Interesting days


Today - Accounting DayTop Gun DayFrog Jumping DayLeprechaun DayWorld Bellydance Day and World Cocktail Day

Tomorrow - Chicken Dance Day

Next Monday - Pick Strawberries DayBe a Millionaire DayWeights & Measures DayQuiche Lorraine DayClinical Trials Day and World Bee Day

Week long celebrations:
May 20 - 26: Italian Beef Week
June 13 - Ice Cream Soda DayAmerican Eagle DayDump The Pump DayWorld Productivity DayVanilla Milkshake Day and Kouign Amann Day