Thursday, July 30, 2020

All or nothing #TBT

Today's blog post was originally published five years ago:

Sunday was All or Nothing Day and I was planning on doing this post on Monday, but I got too busy with business presentations and I missed it.

An interesting simile (or is it metaphor?) is boiling water, which is what Michele Reynolds talked about in her "Together We Can" mentoring call on that day.

Water boils at 212 degrees Fahrenheit...at 211 degrees it's just hot water, but when it boils it creates steam and as we all learned in our history classes about the Industrial Revolution, steam can do lots of work for us if we harness it.

However, I like working with Celsius because then water boils at 100 degrees and it's easy to convert that to percent. If we heat water to 99% of it's boiling point it's just hot water but when we get it to 100% we get steam. All or nothing!

It's the same thing with us. If we don't give something our all, we usually don't get the results we want. You need to make a commitment. Darren Hardy, the publisher of Success magazine, tells the story about cliff divers in Acapulco. Until they've made the commitment of actually jumping off the cliff, they're not all in.

Decide what it is that you want to accomplish and then give it 100% of your effort. If you do, then nothing can stop you!

Interesting days


Today - Chili Dog DayCheesecake DayFriendship DayPaperback Book DayInternational Day of FriendshipShare a Hug DayIntern Day and Father-in-Law Day

Yesterday - Raspberry Cake DayTalk In An Elevator DayUncommon Instrument Awareness DaySystem Administrator Appreciation Day and World Ranger Day

Next Thursday - Fresh Breath DayBalloons to Heaven DayFarmworker Appreciation DayInternational Sailor Moon DayIndia Pale Ale DayRoot Beer Float Day and Wiggle Your Toes Day

August 30 - Toasted Marshmallow DayInternational Whale Shark DayHolistic Pet DayPony Express DaySlinky DayAmagwinya DayGrief Awareness Day and Frankenstein Day


Wednesday, July 29, 2020

Make an Impact in 2020

Before we get started, check out this 2 minute video by my friend, Erin Baer:


You may recognize Erin's name, or her book, since I've written about her and also did some Facebook Lives about her and her mission.

Erin's mission, Make an Impact in 2020, is to get a copy of her book in every woman's shelter in the US by the end of the year and her current goal is to get the total number of books sponsored so far to a total of 300 by the end of the month. As of two days ago, she was at about 250. We can help her in several ways:

  1. By directly sponsoring her book "From Beaten to Badass" through her website
  2. By signing up for a $97 per month subscription to SendOutCards as my customer
  3. By signing up for Darla DiGrandi-Aguilera's year long course "Master the Art of Human Connections"

If you do any of the above, I will sponsor a book also. Just let me know via email or send me a message via Facebook Messenger. And if you sign up for option 2 I'll also send a book in your name to a shelter...so for $97 you'll get $50 worth of books sponsored. But these offers expire at midnight PDT on Friday night. I will sponsor up to 20 books this month,.

As Erin says, let's be the light in someone's life.

Interesting days







Tuesday, July 28, 2020

More on personality types

I haven't written about this subject in a while. I received an email from Personality Junkie and figured it was time to talk about it again!

If you don't know what your MBTI type is, take this quiz. And if you don't even know what MBTI (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator) means, then check this out.

The MBTI is made up of a four letter code, such as INTP (which is my personality type):

We'll start with the middle two letters first, N & T.

N, along with S, are the two perceiving functions or the way you take in information:

N is the abbreviation for i(N)uition, while S is the abbreviation for (S)ensing (the abbreviation I is used for something else).
The currency of Intuition is abstract information, that is, information not available through the five primary senses. Intuitives are drawn to ideas, patterns, theories, fantasies, hypotheticals, and/ or possibilities.
While S types:
Sensing types, by contrast, are generally more practical and “down-to-earth.” They are more at home discussing and partaking in everyday affairs. While Intuitives can spend a lot of time reflecting on and contemplating life, Sensors are more content to simply live it. They are typically task-oriented, doing what they need to do without over-analyzing things.
One way to think of the difference is that S types "will believe it when they see it", while N types will   "see it when they believe it".

I love this quote from Bobby Kennedy:


Which is how I picture the difference...S's are the first type and N's are the second type.

The T (and F) are the judging functions, which filter the information you receive via your N or S functions:
The Thinking-Feeling dimension is the only dichotomy where gender seems to play a role, with men typing more often as Thinkers and women as Feelers. And since this is Typology 101, we will keep our description of this dichotomy fairly concise. 
Approximately two-thirds of men are Thinkers, while about two-thirds of women are Feelers.
Thinkers can be understood as preferring “head over heart,” logic over feelings. They are less immediately concerned with the needs of others, focusing more on pursuing their own interests and objectives. 
Feelers, by contrast, are more in touch with their feelings and emotions. They are generally more caring and compassionate with respect to other people. It’s not that Thinkers don’t feel or Feelers don’t think, but only that they differ in the degree to which they lead with impersonal logic (T) versus feelings and values (F).
Thinkers are more apt to say "I think this is the best option" Or "I think this is a bad idea". While Feelers are more likely to say "I feel this is the best option" Or "I feel this is a bad idea".

Next. we'll look at the fourth letter, (P in my case), while J is the other letter in the pair:
The Judging-Perceiving dimension is a little more difficult and can be more confusing than the other dichotomies. For now, what is most important to know is that J-P refers primarily to outward behavior and attitudes. In other words, it does not involve how you see or understand yourself from the inside, but how others might see and characterize you from the outside. You may even want to ask others how they see you to help you clarify your J-P preference.
Which in general means:
P-types are outwardly receptive and adaptable. They are less apt to readily declare their opinions or impose their will on others. Consequently, they are, rightly or not, often perceived as good listeners and non-judgmental in their attitude toward others. 
J-types are outwardly firm, direct, opinionated, and decisive. They are more inclined than P-types to directly declare their views or wishes. Others may turn to the outer strength of J-types in situations requiring a firm decision or conclusion.
So, my perceiving function (N) is more visible to others, so we say that's my extraverted function, which is abbreviated Ne. Which makes thinking my introverted function, Ti.

Now, we look at the first lettter which tells whether your introverted or extraverted function is your dominant, or most naturally used, function. Since I'm an I type, my Ti (introverted thinking) is my dominant function. And that makes your other function your secondary function...in my case that would be extraverted intuition (Ne).

We now have half of the functional stack. Our third, or tertiary, function is the opposite of the secondary function...in my case Ne is my secondary function so Si (introverted sensing) is my tertiary function, since Intuition and Sensing are the two perceiving functions.

And our fourth function, or inferior function, is the opposite of our dominant function, or in my case Fe or extraverted feeling. And if you know me, you know I have a hard time sharing my feelings. Which, I think, explains why I was drawn to SendOutCards...to make it easier for me to share my feelings.

Each of us is made up of a combination of four of the eight different functions. Here is a good overview of the 8 functions.

After you take the quiz, look here to find out more about your specific personality type.

Here's an excerpt from the INTP type:
The INTP personality type is the most independent and philosophical of the 16 types. INTPs have a deep need for personal autonomy and independence of thought. While they may not discover their intellectual side quite as early as an INTJ might, once their auxiliary function, Extraverted Intuition (Ne), has been fully awakened, they display an insatiable appetite for ideation and theorizing. Many enjoy exploring unifying theories and metaphysical truths that explain the underlying nature of things. Toward this end, they may devour stacks of books on philosophy, religion, psychology, evolutionary theory, and the like.
I'd love to find out what your MBTI type is...let me know.

Interesting days



Tomorrow - International Chicken Wing DayInternational Tiger DayRain DayLipstick Day and Lasagna Day

Next Tuesday - Coast Guard DayInternational Clouded Leopard DaySingle Working Women’s DayAssistance Dog Day and Night Out

August 28 - Bow Tie DayDaffodil DayCherry Turnover DayCrackers Over The Keyboard DayRainbow Bridge Remembrance DayRadio Commercials Day and Race Your Mouse Around The Icons Day


Monday, July 27, 2020

Do Good Because It Is Good

Today's blog post is based on an article from The Art of Manliness:
Did you know that practicing gratitude helps you sleep better at night? 
That meditation reduces stress? 
That cultivating social ties can help you live longer? 
That getting married increases your income, going to church lowers your blood pressure, and spending time in nature improves your ability to focus? 
Cool, cool, cool. But really . . . who gives a sh*t? 
In modernity, we’ve taken to justifying every behavior and practice by its benefits, its utility. We wait for an MRI scan, a just-so explanation drawn from evolutionary psychology, a scientific study, to tell us why we should do something. We ask, “What’s in it for me?” We approach even the seemingly sacred as if it were an offering in a marketplace, for which we want to get the best deal. 
In adopting this stance, we turn everything, from ethics to relationships, into tools; we convert the ineffable into objects; we instrumentalize human values. 
But ancient philosophers didn’t exhort us to seek Beauty, Truth, and Justice because they are expedient, productive, and useful. These ideals, these eternal transcendentals, these properties of being, were seen as intrinsically valuable. They were sought for their own sake. They were embraced not as the means to achieving something else, but as ends in themselves; the “something else” was simply the happy byproduct of their pursuit.

As the modern philosopher Svend Brinkmann puts it, right action legitimizes itself. You don’t pursue things like friendship, health, love, and virtue for their practical utility; you do Good simply because it is Good.
I think we're seeing how this brings out the worst in people with all the Karen's and Chad's (although I've also seen the male versions of Karen's called Ken's). The only thing they care about is what's best for themselves. And now we're seeing where the poor, maligned millennials got their feelings of entitlement from...the same people who complain about the millennials are the ones who raised them to be that way.


Check out this post I did a few years ago about the millennials and the other generations...it's even scarier now than it was when it was first published.

Interesting days



Tomorrow - Milk Chocolate Day and World Hepatitis Day

Next Monday - Watermelon DayWhite Wine DayClean Your Floors Day and Cloves Syndrome Awareness Day

August 27 - International Bat NightBurger DayBanana Lovers DayPots De Creme DayPetroleum DayTug-of-War Day and The Duchess Who Wasn’t Day


Saturday, July 25, 2020

Your weekend guide to interesting days - July 25, 2020

This week


Sunday - Ice Cream Day and Daiquiri Day

Monday - Moon DayInternational Chess DayWorld Jump DaySpace Exploration Day and Lollipop Day

Tuesday - Junk Food Day and Lamington Day

Wednesday - Hammock DayHot Dog DayCreme Brulee DayMango Day and Penuche Fudge Day


Yesterday - Tequila DayDrive-Thru DayPioneer DayCousins Day and Tell An Old Joke Day

Today - Wine and Cheese DayThread The Needle DayHot Fudge Sundae Day and Carousel Day

Week long celebrations:
Jul 18 - Jul 26: Moth Week

Next week


Tomorrow - Aunt and Uncle DayParents’ DayCoffee Milk Shake DayHolistic Therapy DayAll or Nothing Day and One Voice Day

Monday - Walk On Stilts DayNorfolk DayChicken Finger DayScotch Whisky DayTake Your Houseplant For A Walk Day and Gary Gygax Day

Tuesday - Milk Chocolate Day and World Hepatitis Day

Wednesday - International Chicken Wing DayInternational Tiger DayRain DayLipstick Day and Lasagna Day


Friday - Raspberry Cake DayTalk In An Elevator DayUncommon Instrument Awareness DaySystem Administrator Appreciation Day and World Ranger Day

August will be Anti-Frizz MonthHappiness Happens MonthWater Quality MonthPeach MonthRomance Awareness MonthFishing MonthInventor’s Month and Catfish Month

Saturday - Planner DayYorkshire DayWorld Wide Web DayDisc Golf DaySandcastle DayWorld Lung Cancer DayRounds Resounding DayInternational Childfree DayRaspberry Cream Pie DayMead DayMustard Day and World Scout Scarf Day

Week long celebrations:
Jul 18 - Jul 26: Moth Week

Next month


August 19 - International Orangutan DayPhotography DayPotato DayInternational Bow DayHumanitarian Day and Aviation Day

August 20 - International Day of Medical TransportersChocolate Pecan Pie Day and World Mosquito Day

August 21 - Senior Citizens DayPoet’s DayMen’s Grooming Day and Spumoni Day

August 22 - Be An Angel DayEat A Peach DayPecan Torte Day and Take Your Cat to the Vet Day

August 23 - Ride the Wind DayValentino DayCuban Sandwich Day and Sponge Cake Day

August 24 - International Strange Music DayKnife DayPeach Pie DayInternaut DayPluto Demoted Day and Vesuvius Day

August 25 - Kiss And Make Up DayBanana Split Day and Whiskey Sour Day



Friday, July 24, 2020

The week in review - July 24, 2020

Monday - "To Improve Your Storytelling Skills, Use Abraham Lincoln as Inspiration" Use the Gettysburg Address as a template. "The structure works so well, writes Callahan, because it creates a series of events that cause people to want to know what happens next."

Tuesday - "The Rise of Secular Religion and the New Puritanism" An interesting take on modern American culture. "I think this is one of the most fascinating podcasts that I've heard in awhile!"

Wednesday - "The Munger Technique: The Best Way To Improve Yourself" Invest in yourself. "We’ve all heard about the magic of compounding interest. Something equally powerful is mental compounding interest."

Thursday - "The 3 Elements of Charisma: Power #TBT" From The Art of Manliness. "The currents of Presence, Power, and Warmth must be harmoniously intertwined to produce truly electric charisma."

Interesting days



Tomorrow - Wine and Cheese DayThread The Needle DayHot Fudge Sundae Day and Carousel Day

Week long celebrations:
Jul 18 - Jul 26: Moth Week
Next Friday - Raspberry Cake DayTalk In An Elevator DayUncommon Instrument Awareness DaySystem Administrator Appreciation Day and World Ranger Day

August 24 - International Strange Music DayKnife DayPeach Pie DayInternaut DayPluto Demoted Day and Vesuvius Day


Thursday, July 23, 2020

The 3 Elements of Charisma: Power #TBT

Today's blog post was originally published last year:

Part 2 of a 3 part series from The Art of Manliness. Links to the other parts are below.
Charismatic individuals are powerful people. However, this doesn’t necessarily mean they’re the leader of the free world or the chairman of a multi-national corporation. In fact, you can find individuals who convey Power in the humblest walks of life. Power, according to Cabane, simply “means being perceived as able to affect the world around us, whether through influence on or authority over others, large amounts of money, expertise, intelligence, sheer physical strength, or high social status.” 
Being able to affect the world around us. Powerful people can get things done, or at least they give that impression. Charismatic individuals draw people into their orbit like a magnet, and Power is the crux of that magnetic force. It’s a primal attraction. Back in our caveman times, our survival could depend on being chummy with the big dogs at the top of the social hierarchy – those who could offer protection, food, and women. To better enable us to seek out and latch onto such people, our brains evolved to cue in on body language and status markers that indicate power.
All three components of charisma must be available. We'll talk about the 3rd component tomorrow.
It’s extremely important to point out here that each of the three components of charisma must be deftly combined in order to produce personal magnetism. You may be the most affable, attentive person in the room, but without Power, people will at best just see a nice guy, and, at worst, someone who’s needy and desperate; it may seem harsh, but generally the value people place on your Presence and Warmth depends on the amount of power they perceive you to have. Here’s a quick example. If you received a compliment on a job presentation from both a co-worker and the CEO of the company, which compliment would mean more to you? If you’re like most people, it’d be the CEO because he’s got the power. 
On the flip side, Power in the absence of Warmth and Presence is a charisma killer. A powerful man who lacks these tempering qualities can be seen as important and impressive, but will come off as aloof, arrogant, and cold. 
The currents of Presence, Power, and Warmth must be harmoniously intertwined to produce truly electric charisma.
How can you boost your charismatic power?
  • Boost your confidence.
  • Know a little about a lot.
  • Become physically fit.
  • Dress for power.
  • Be the Big Gorilla.
  • Assume Power Poses.
  • Take control of your environment.
  • Speak less and slowly.
  • Boost your poise.
There's a lot more information in the article, including an entire section on finding your inner gorilla.

Part 1
Part 2
Part 3

Interesting days



Week long celebrations:
July 18 - 26: Moth Week


Wednesday, July 22, 2020

The Munger Technique: The Best Way To Improve Yourself

Today's blog post is based on an article by Darius Foroux:
We’ve all heard about the magic of compounding interest. Something equally powerful is mental compounding interest. Here’s some advice from the investor Charlie Munger that I read in the book, University of Berkshire Hathaway:

“He (Munger) got the idea to add a mental compound interest as well. So he decided he would sell himself the best hour of the day to improving his own mind, and the world could buy the rest of his time. He said it may sound selfish, but it worked. He also noted that if you become very reliable and stay that way, it will be very hard to fail in doing anything you want.” 
I’ve been calling this idea the Munger Technique since I learned about this. But when I mention this to my students, team, or friends, the majority assumes that Munger is talking about a morning ritual.

That’s a wrong assumption. Munger said that he sold himself the best hour of the day. He used that hour to improve his mind.
If you don't know who Charlie Munger is, he's Warren Buffet's business partner at Berkshire Hathaway.

This ties in with the idea of kaizen, which I wrote about here.

You need to figure out which hour of the day is your best hour:
One of my key beliefs is that life is cyclical. I learned this from studying successful investors like Howard Marks. 
They often stress that on a day to day basis, stocks go up and down a lot. But if you look at the stock market over ten, twenty, or thirty years, you see a steady upward trend. 
Something similar happens to our days. One day you might feel good, another day, you might feel tired. It’s just like the stock market. And that’s why I’m not a fan of morning rituals. It’s simply unrealistic to expect you to feel the same way every single day of your life. 
I understand the argument for morning routines. The idea is that a good morning ritual will make your day better. But in my experience, that’s not the case. 
Sometimes you simply wake up with less energy. Sometimes you have an emergency. If you have kids, your mornings are dedicated to them. In those cases, you can meditate all you want, you’ll still be tired or have to deal with that emergency. 
You can think of many reasons morning routines don’t work. But the Munger Technique always works. Let me explain why.
As you can see, your best hour of the day may not be the same hour every day. Darius then talks about one of my childhood heroes, Bruce Lee:
If we adopt the mindset of an investor, and realize that our days might be up and down, how can we still be reliable over the long-term?

We can do that by adopting what I call a “Water Mindset.” I named this after Bruce Lee, who believed that we must be like water. Water always adopts the shape of its surroundings.
If you didn't already know this, I lived across the street from Bruce Lee for several years before and after "The Green Hornet".
And the Munger Technique will help you to become like water. Give yourself the best hour of the day. And your best hour might be in the morning one day, and it might be after dinner the next. But it must be your best hour (not what some blogger says). 
This technique has massively shifted the way I learn. I no longer get frustrated if I can’t learn in the morning, I simply realize it’s not my best hour. When it comes to improving your mind, you want to be in a relaxed, more flow-like state. You want to feel good, energetic, and rested.

And yes, as Munger says, it sounds selfish, but it works. Over the long-term, it will make you more reliable. When you improve your mind a bit every day, that results in mental compounding interest. It will become very hard to fail at anything in life that way.
You know what I realized over the last few months as I’m applying this technique? My best hour is often after dinner. Especially if I’ve worked out that day and was productive at work. I’ll have dinner, maybe relax a bit, grab a cup of tea and get down to it.

Before this, I would often watch some videos on YouTube or browse the internet. Often, you don’t even realize what’s the best hour of your day. You must be conscious and always keep adapting your habits so that it’s in line with your energy. Look, maybe my best hour will be the first hour after I wake up again. Who knows? But as long as you adopt the shape of water, you will adapt. 
Give this Munger Technique a try. From tomorrow, give the best hour of your day to improving your mind. If you do it every day, the knowledge will compound.

Interesting days


Today - Hammock DayHot Dog DayCreme Brulee DayMango Day and Penuche Fudge Day

Tomorrow - Peanut Butter and Chocolate DaySprinkle DayInternational Yada, Yada, Yada DayGorgeous Grandma Day and Vanilla Ice Cream Day

Week long celebrations:
Jul 18 - Jul 26: Moth Week
Next Wednesday - International Chicken Wing DayInternational Tiger DayRain DayLipstick Day and Lasagna Day

August 22 - Be An Angel DayEat A Peach DayPecan Torte Day and Take Your Cat to the Vet Day


Tuesday, July 21, 2020

The Rise of Secular Religion and the New Puritanism

Today's blog post is based on a podcast by The Art of Manliness and gives some insights on what's going on in today's society:
There has been a lot of civil and political upheaval lately, and what makes the atmosphere particularly disorienting, is that beyond the more obvious proximate and commonly-discussed causes for the turmoil, it feels like there are even deeper cultural currents and contexts at play, that are yet hard to put one’s finger on and understand. There’s a fervor in the debates and conflict that almost seems . . . religious. 
My guest today would say that’s exactly the right word to describe the tenor of things. His name is Jacob Howland, he’s a recently retired professor of philosophy, and the currents at play in today’s world are things he’s spent his whole career studying — from Plato and Aristotle to the Hebrew Bible and Kierkegaard, with a particular emphasis on the political philosophy of the ancient Greeks. Howland draws on all those areas to weave together a kind of philosophical roadmap to how we’ve arrived at our current cultural zeitgeist. In particular, Howland makes the case that what we’re seeing today is the rise of a kind of secular religion, a new Puritanism, that worships at what he calls “the Church of Humanity.” This new Puritanism bases the idea of moral purity around one’s views on issues like race and gender, and seeks to purge anyone who doesn’t adhere to the proscribed dogma.

Jacob walks us through the tenets of the dominant influence on this secular religion — a strain of modern thought called “critical theory” — and offers a kind of philosophical genealogy on what led up to it, which includes the ideas of Rousseau, Marx, and Hegel. We discuss how critical theory contrasts with classical liberalism, and approaches people as members of groups rather than as individuals, and as abstractions rather than particulars, and how this lens on the world leads to identity politics and cancel culture. We delve into Kierkegaard’s prophecies on the leveling of society, and how the modern tendency to make man the measure of all things can leave us feeling spiritually and intellectually empty, and looking to politics to fill an existential void it can’t ultimately satisfy. We end our conversation describing the sustenance which can.
Here are the highlights from the program:
  • The Christian quest for certainty in salvation and how it changed society
  • What does “secular salvation” look like? What is “the church of humanity”?
  • The tribal echo chambers of modern institutions 
  • Virtue signaling and performative ethics 
  • The genealogy of this secular protestantism 
  • What is classic liberalism? 
  • Understanding society through the prism of large groups vs. individuals 
  • Why we’re really good at criticism and not-so-good at positive thought 
  • How does humanism change human behavior?
  • The cancellation of Socrates 
  • How can studying philosophy help people navigate our crazy age?
 I think this is one of the most fascinating podcasts that I've heard in awhile!

Interesting days



Tomorrow - Hammock DayHot Dog DayCreme Brulee DayMango Day and Penuche Fudge Day

Week long celebrations:
Jul 18 - Jul 26: Moth Week
Next Tuesday - Milk Chocolate Day and World Hepatitis Day

August 21 - Senior Citizens DayPoet’s DayMen’s Grooming Day and Spumoni Day


Monday, July 20, 2020

To Improve Your Storytelling Skills, Use Abraham Lincoln as Inspiration

Today's blog post is based on an article from Inc. magazine:

There are many times in our lives that we're required to make speeches but how do we go about making a memorable one?
Time magazine lists it as one of the 10 greatest speeches of all time. It is a poignant expression of the travails of a troubled nation. And it contains an opening line that most Americans can still recite years after they learned it in school. 
The speech, of course, is Abraham Lincoln's Gettysburg Address. But although you know it well, what you might not realize about "four scores and seven years ago . . ." is that Lincoln's oration followed one of the most effective story structures you can use—the structure that storytelling expert Shawn Callahan calls "the clarity story." 
This type of story is so valuable because for people to be engaged, they need to understand why they should take action. "The clarity story provides reasons in the most powerful and digestible format possible," writes Callahan in Putting Stories to Work. 
There are four parts to the clarity story:
Part 1 begins with a look back at the past to take the listener back to the way things used to be. 
Part 2 shifts to something that happened: the events that caused a problem or opportunity. 
Part 3 is what Callahan calls "so now . . ." which describes the decision or action needed to respond. 
Part 4 looks ahead to the future to envision a desired outcome.
Be sure to check out the article to see how Lincoln's speech used all four parts.

Also, check out the article to see how a bank used the clarity story to tell its employees why they were making a certain change.
The structure works so well, writes Callahan, because it creates a series of events that cause people to want to know what happens next. "You need to spark people's interest by starting with the context, then hold their attention because something happens that causes a change, then end with an outcome." 
Lincoln relied on this technique in his iconic speech—and you can, too.
How can you use this in your speeches? Let me know what you come up with.

Interesting days



Tomorrow - Junk Food Day and Lamington Day

Week long celebrations:
Jul 18 - Jul 26: Moth Week
Next Monday - Walk On Stilts DayNorfolk DayChicken Finger DayScotch Whisky DayTake Your Houseplant For A Walk Day and Gary Gygax Day

Week long celebrations:
Jul 18 - Jul 26: Moth Week
August 20 - International Day of Medical TransportersChocolate Pecan Pie Day and World Mosquito Day

Saturday, July 18, 2020

Your weekend guide to interesting days - July 18, 2020

This week


Sunday - Etch A Sketch DayNew Conversations DaySimplicity DayPecan Pie Day and Different Colored Eyes Day

Monday - French Fries DayBeef Tallow DayInternational Rock DayTown Criers Day and Embrace Your Geekness Day

Tuesday - Shark Awareness DayMac & Cheese DayGrand Marnier Day and Pandemonium Day

Wednesday - Gummi Worm DayOrange Chicken DayPet Fire Safety Day and Tapioca Pudding Day

Thursday - Corn Fritters Day,  Guinea Pig Appreciation DayWorld Snake Day and Fresh Spinach Day

Yesterday - World Emoji DayPeach Ice Cream DayTattoo Day and Yellow Pig Day

Today - Insurance Nerd DayCaviar Day and Mandela Day

Week long celebrations:
Jul 6 - Jul 12: Great British Pea Week
Jul 18 - Jul 26: Moth Week 

Next week


Tomorrow - Ice Cream Day and Daiquiri Day

Monday - Junk Food Day and Lamington Day

Tuesday - Hammock DayHot Dog DayCreme Brulee DayMango Day and Penuche Fudge Day

Wednesday - Hammock DayHot Dog DayCreme Brulee DayMango Day and Penuche Fudge Day


Friday - Tequila DayDrive-Thru DayPioneer DayCousins Day and Tell An Old Joke Day

Saturday - Wine and Cheese DayThread The Needle DayHot Fudge Sundae Day and Carousel Day

Week long celebrations:
Jul 18 - Jul 26: Moth Week

Next month


August 12 - World Calligraphy DayWorld Elephant DayVinyl Record DayMiddle Child’s Day and International Youth Day

August 13 - Filet Mignon Day

August 14 - Creamsicle DayTattoo Removal Day and Social Security Day

August 15 - (The website isn't working. I'll have to get this info later)




Week long celebrations:
August 10 - 16: Afternoon Tea Week

Friday, July 17, 2020

The week in review - July 17, 2020

Monday - "No blog post today" Oops. "My laptop is out of commission. I’ll try to get it repaired today."

Tuesday - "No blog post today" Obviously, I didn't get it fixed. "I’m getting it looked at today and hopefully repaired"

Wednesday - "How to Declutter Every Aspect of Your Work Life" From The Art of Manliness. "How overloaded is your email box? Apparently the record is 4.2 million emails!"

Thursday - "The Science of Facial Hair: What Signals Do Beards, Stubble, and Mustaches Send to Others? #TBT" Another one from AoM. "Studies have indicated that women find facial stubble the most “attractive” look when it comes to facial hair."

Interesting days



Tomorrow - Insurance Nerd DayCaviar Day and Mandela Day

Week long celebrations:
Jul 18 - Jul 26: Moth Week 
Next Friday - Tequila DayDrive-Thru DayPioneer DayCousins Day and Tell An Old Joke Day

Week long celebrations:
Jul 18 - Jul 26: Moth Week
August 17 - Thrift Shop DayVanilla Custard Day and Black Cat Appreciation Day


Thursday, July 16, 2020

The Science of Facial Hair: What Signals Do Beards, Stubble, and Mustaches Send to Others? #TBT

Today's blog post was originally published last year and seems very appropriate since many of us guys are growing a quarantine beard or mustache. I'm keeping up my normal routine of usually shaving once or twice a week:

Today's blog post is based on an article from The Art of Manliness. I don't really like beards but I also don't like to shave, so I'm kind of in that Don Johnson Miami Vice state of stubble most of the time. But since the #30DayBeardGrowingChallenge starts in just over 3 weeks (23 days but who's counting?), I figured this is a good time to discuss facial hair.
Wouldn’t it be nice if there was a yes or no answer to every question of aesthetics? 
It’s certainly how magazines and pop culture presents things when it comes to how a man should or shouldn’t look. 
But that’s rarely how the human brain works. As we’ve discussed before in regards to style, there are definitely some black/white rules, but for the most part each man needs to discover what works best for him. He needs to express himself through his style choices, within some basic frameworks. 
One fascinatingly complex issue that has come back into the spotlight recently is that of facial hair. It’s not something you can break down into basic good/bad or right/wrong strategies. It all depends on the individual. 
Forget anyone who tells you that beards are a 100% guarantee to be an alpha male lady-killer. Also forget anyone who says they’re an automatic job-loser and impossible to pair with a business suit. 
It’s just not that simple. 
With a little bit of research, you can figure out the length and style of facial hair that’s right for your life, your career, and your goals.
 So, what kind of signals does facial hair send to others?
Here’s the most basic breakdown. When you have distinctive facial hair (anything visible, even stubble), these are the traits people tend to associate with you: 
  • aggression and dominance
  • maturity 
A clean-shaven man, on the other hand, is associated more with the following traits: 
  • sociability
  • health/cleanliness
The article then goes on to talk about different aspects of facial hair:

Facial Hair and Societal Perception 


Aggression & Facial Hair

Maturity & Facial Hair

Sociability & Facial Hair


Which fellow would folks feel more comfortable approaching?
Cleanliness & Facial Hair


Facial Hair and Employment

The takeaway: for job interviews, you need either a clean shave or a very neat beard. Make sure the outlines are razor-sharp (no pun intended) if you go bearded.

Facial Hair, Self-Perception, and Behavior


Beards and Sexual Appeal

We’ve saved the best for last, because this is what most of you really want to know: will a beard help you with women?
Well?
  • Studies have indicated that women find facial stubble the most “attractive” look when it comes to facial hair. One study went a step further, separating “light stubble” from “heavy stubble,” at which point women found heavy stubble the most attractive and light stubble the least — call it the “no peachfuzz, please!” value judgement.
  • Unsurprisingly, women found men with facial hair more “masculine” than men without.
  • Likely tied to the idea that greater masculinity=better provider, women rated men with full beards as most likely to have good parenting skills.
  • Clean-shaven and full-bearded men were rated higher on personal cleanliness than men with stubble of any length.
So, long story short, how facial hair will help you in your quest for love depends largely on the sort of partner and relationship you’re looking for. 
If you want to settle down and have kids, and are looking for someone that feels the same, a full beard might be best. If you’re just flirting and having fun, a few days of stubble will work better — but make sure it’s thick and even.
Here's a video to wrap things up for you:



Whenever I grow my beard, there's definitely quite a difference of opinion. Last year, for the first time I actually shaved off most of it and kept a goatee for a little while. Maybe I'll do that again this year.

Interesting days




Week long celebrations:
Jul 18 - Jul 26: Moth Week

Week long celebrations:
August 10 - 16: Afternoon Tea Week

Wednesday, July 15, 2020

How to Declutter Every Aspect of Your Work Life

Today's blog post is based on a podcast from The Art of Manliness and ties in with similar posts from last week:
When you think about decluttering, you probably think about your home life, and cleaning out your junk drawer and closets. But there are also ways to declutter your work life and tidy up both its physical and digital aspects. 
My guest today explains the art of practicing minimalism in your professional life in a book he co-authored with organizing expert Marie Kondo. His name is Scott Soneshein, he’s a professor of business and management, and his book is Joy at Work. Scott and I begin our conversation by unpacking the benefits of keeping your work life neat and tidy, and then move into how to do this in regards to your physical workspace. Scott shares three questions to ask yourself when you declutter your office to help you decide which items to keep and which to throw away. We also take a useful aside into how to throw away your children’s artwork with less guilt. We then move into how to declutter your digital life by cleaning up your email inbox and smartphone. We end our discussion with several areas you may not think of in terms of clutter, but probably need some tidying up: your activities, decisions, network, and meetings.
Here are the highlights from the podcast:
  • The benefits of keeping your work life tidy 
  • How to prevent tidying from becoming just another procrastination tool
  • Tips for organizing your physical office space 
  • Dealing with kids’ sentimental crafts and artwork 
  • How can you keep paperwork neat and tidy?
  • How has digital clutter changed the tidying game?
  • Managing your overloaded email inbox 
  • What is “activity clutter”?
  • Can you declutter your decisions?
  • How can you tidy your networking?
  • Making meetings better
How overloaded is your email box? Apparently the record is 4.2 million emails! I'm far from that...I have one in my work email box for a blog post idea that I need to forward to my personal email and I have a total of two between all of my personal emails and those are for bills that I need to verify before deleting the emails.

This was an interesting podcast. Go check it out!

Interesting days



Tomorrow - Corn Fritters Day,  Guinea Pig Appreciation DayWorld Snake Day and Fresh Spinach Day

Next Wednesday - Hammock DayHot Dog DayCreme Brulee DayMango Day and Penuche Fudge Day

Week long celebrations:
Jul 18 - Jul 26: Moth Week
August 15 - World Honey Bee DayCheck The Chip DayRelaxation DayCycle to Work DayAcadian DayGeocaching DayLemon Meringue Pie DayBreak The Monotony Day and Homeless Animals Day

Week long celebrations:
Aug 10 - Aug 16: Afternoon Tea Week

Tuesday, July 14, 2020

No blog post today

Another day without my laptop. I’m getting it looked at today and hopefully repaired, although it may be time to get a new one!

Monday, July 13, 2020

Saturday, July 11, 2020

Your weekend guide to interesting days - July 11, 2020

This week


Sunday - Apple Turnover DayBikini DayMechanical Pencil Day and Build A Scarecrow Day

Monday - International Kissing DayFried Chicken DayVirtually Hug a Virtual Assistant DayUmbrella Cover Day and Take Your Webmaster To Lunch Day

Tuesday - Cow Appreciation DayChocolate DayMacaroni DayStrawberry Sundae DayGlobal Forgiveness Day and Tell The Truth Day

Wednesday - Math 2.0 DayChocolate with Almonds Day and Scud Day

Thursday - Sugar Cookie Day

Yesterday - Kebab DayPiña Colada DayTeddy Bear Picnic Day and Don’t Step On A Bee Day

Today - Free Slurpee DayMojito DayBlueberry Muffin Day and World Population Day

Week long celebrations:
Jul 6 - Jul 12: Great British Pea Week

Next week


Tomorrow - Etch A Sketch DayNew Conversations DaySimplicity DayPecan Pie Day and Different Colored Eyes Day

Monday - French Fries DayBeef Tallow DayInternational Rock DayTown Criers Day and Embrace Your Geekness Day

Tuesday - Shark Awareness DayMac & Cheese DayGrand Marnier Day and Pandemonium Day

Wednesday - Gummi Worm DayOrange Chicken DayPet Fire Safety Day and Tapioca Pudding Day

Thursday - Corn Fritters Day,  Guinea Pig Appreciation DayWorld Snake Day and Fresh Spinach Day

Friday - World Emoji DayPeach Ice Cream DayTattoo Day and Yellow Pig Day

Saturday - Insurance Nerd DayCaviar Day and Mandela Day

Week long celebrations:
Jul 6 - Jul 12: Great British Pea Week
Jul 18 - Jul 26: Moth Week 

Next month


August 5 - Work Like a Dog DayBlogger DayOyster Day and Underwear Day

August 6 - Fresh Breath DayBalloons to Heaven DayFarmworker Appreciation DayInternational Sailor Moon DayIndia Pale Ale DayRoot Beer Float Day and Wiggle Your Toes Day

August 7 - Particularly Preposterous Packaging DayInternational Beer DayAged Care Employee DayProfessional Speakers Day and Lighthouse Day

August 8 - International Cat DayHappiness Happens DayScottish Wildcat DayTop 8 Challenge DayOdie DayBowling Day and Garage Sale Day

August 9 - Book Lovers DayRice Pudding Day and Melon Day

August 10 - Lazy DayWorld Lion DayVlogging DayS’mores DaySkyscraper Appreciation Day and Duran Duran Appreciation Day

August 11 - Son and Daughter DayPlay In The Sand DayIngersoll Day

Week long celebrations:
Aug 10 - Aug 16: Afternoon Tea Week

Friday, July 10, 2020

The week in review - July 10, 2020

Monday - "Catching Up On Sleep: How to Pay Off Your ‘Sleep Debt’ (and Why It’s a Big Deal)" From Dr. Michael Breus. "Sleep debt is the difference between the amount of sleep you get each night and the amount you should be getting."

Tuesday - "Secure Your Base" From The Art of Manliness. "Securing your base means establishing a self-sustaining, shock-resistant “headquarters” that is well-defended against disruptions from external forces."

Wednesday - "This Is What Happens to Your Brain When You Declutter Your Home" More on the benefits of securing your base. "Our brains can process information more clearly and efficiently in an organized space"

Thursday - "I've got a secret #TBT" On secret Facebook groups. "So, why would you want a secret Facebook group and how can it replace a hotel presentation for your business opportunity?"

Interesting days



Tomorrow - Free Slurpee DayMojito DayBlueberry Muffin Day and World Population Day

Next Friday - World Emoji DayPeach Ice Cream DayTattoo Day and Yellow Pig Day

August 10 - Lazy DayWorld Lion DayVlogging DayS’mores DaySkyscraper Appreciation Day and Duran Duran Appreciation Day

Week long celebrations:
Aug 10 - Aug 16: Afternoon Tea Week