Sunday, February 7, 2016

Happy #sendacardtoafriendday

Interesting days


Today - Ballet DayWave All Your Fingers At Your Neighbors Day and Send a Card to a Friend Day Oh, yeah. There's some football thingy going on today. How about sending a card to a friend congratulating them on their team's win? Or condolences on their loss?



March 7 - Fun Facts About Names DayBe Heard DayCrown Roast of Pork Day (which sounds really tasty) and one of my favorite foods...Cereal Day


Friday, February 5, 2016

The Friday Fishwrap

All the news that's fit to wrap around a dead fish

The week in review


Monday - "February is more than just Valentine's Day" Other things to celebrate in February

Tuesday "Happy Groundhog Day!" Why we celebrate Groundhog Day from The Old Farmer's Almanac

Wednesday - "Social vs emotional" Social and emotional intelligence

Thursday - "Is it a scam?" About franchising and network marketing


Interesting days


This week


Saturday - Seed Swap DayInane Answering Message Day and Croissant Day

Sunday - Inspire Your Heart With Art Day and Backward Day



Wednesday - Carrot Cake Day

Thursday - Thank A Mailman DayStuffed Mushroom Day and Homemade Soup Day

Today - Weatherman's DayWorld Nutella DayDoodle DayChocolate Fondue DayWestern Monarch DayWorking Naked Day and Bubblegum Day

Next week


Tomorrow - Take Your Child To The Library DayFrozen Yogurt DayLace DayLame Duck Day and Ice Cream For Breakfast Day

Sunday - Ballet DayWave All Your Fingers At Your Neighbors Day and Send a Card to a Friend Day

Monday - Laugh And Get Rich DayMolasses Bar DayKite Flying DayClean Out Your Computer Day and Opera Day. And in honor of Chinese New Year's, you can get a free egg roll at Panda Express


Wednesday -  Plimsoll Day and Umbrella Day

Thursday - Make a Friend DayDon't Cry Over Spilled Milk DaySatisfied Staying Single DayGet Out Your Guitar DayPro Sports Wives Day and White Shirt Day

Friday - Plum Pudding DayDarwin Day and Lost Penny Day


Next month






Thursday, February 4, 2016

Is it a scam?

In the 1950's and 1960's, franchising was considered a questionable business model...much as network marketing is today. And for many of the same reasons.

Here is a passage from a book by the American Bar Association called Franchise Casebook:
The line between wholesome free enterprise and harmful greed is often thin. The “wild west” of business format franchising that emerged after WWII and created substantial wealth for a broad variety of American citizens also served the interests of dishonest individuals looking to make a quick buck at the expense of vulnerable would-be franchisees. Unethical practices led to most of the state legislation and many of the common law developments that are the subject of this casebook. But in developing laws designed to protect franchisees from a lack of information about a franchise opportunity or to curb abusive practices by franchisors, our legislatures and courts have rarely lost sight of the importance of franchising to the American economy and the unique opportunities it presents to entrepreneurs. In enacting laws and handing down decisions, they have typically sought to achieve a careful balancing of the interests of franchisor and franchisee alike.
Before franchising was regulated, there were many people who did many shady, if not illegal things. But after regulation in the 1970's, most of those problems disappeared. Are they totally gone? No...as long as there are people who would prefer to lie and steal than to actually earn some money, there will always be some problems.

And it's the same with network marketing. At one time people were promising millions by just signing your name and handing over some cash. But again, regulations have eliminated almost all of the trouble makers.

With network marketing, it is illegal to just sell distributorships. There must be products or services being sold. If there are no customers, then it's a pyramid scheme...which is illegal. As long as products are being sold to non-distributors then the company is legitimate. Distributors are allowed to buy the product or service but it must be made available to others outside the distributor ranks. There are also rules that it must be possible for someone to out-earn the people above them, so it's not true that only the people who got in at the beginning make money. They do have time as an advantage, but it can be overcome. The top earner in SendOutCards has been with the company for 10 or 11 years but there are a couple of people who have been in the company for a few months to a year, who are on a trajectory to oust him from that position.

So, is it a scam? If you find a network marketing company that has been in business for awhile and is a member of the DSA (Direct Selling Association), then you can feel pretty safe. Most of the problems come from the independent distributors making false claims, whether knowingly or unknowingly. As far as franchises go, I'm not really familiar with them.

SendOutCards has recently made the line between customer and distributor even more distinct. Anybody can sign up as a customer, at various price points. And any customer can upgrade to a distributor for $50. And all distributors must not only have a customer package but they must signup additional customers to earn commissions and bonuses. To find out more, check out my SendOutCards webpage and click on Join Now to see the different packages available.

Interesting days



Tomorrow - Weatherman's DayWorld Nutella DayDoodle DayChocolate Fondue DayWestern Monarch DayWorking Naked Day and Bubblegum Day

Next Thursday - Make a Friend DayDon't Cry Over Spilled Milk DaySatisfied Staying Single DayGet Out Your Guitar DayPro Sports Wives Day and White Shirt Day

March 4 - Dress in Blue DaySalesperson DayDay of UnpluggingEmployee Appreciation DayGrammar DayInternational Scrapbooking Industry DayPoundcake Day and Toy Soldier Day






Wednesday, February 3, 2016

Social vs emotional

I've been listening to "Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw Audio Book" by Stephen Covey and while he was talking about the social/emotional dimension of a person, he mentioned "social is your relationship with others, emotional is your relationship with yourself". I'd never heard it stated that way and I thought it was an interesting idea so I looked into it and this is what I found.

I found this image at Social Intelligence


The Personal Competence row would be your Emotional Intelligence (or EQ) while the Social Competence row would be your Social Intelligence (or SQ). And from Wendy Zito
Emotional Intelligence Vs. Social Intelligence
The differences between emotional intelligence (EQ) and social intelligence (SQ). EQ is about Self-Mastery, SQ is about your ability to lead and inspire other people through your ability to influence, empathize and care.
Here's an online EQ quiz that you can take.

Interesting days


Today - Carrot Cake Day

Tomorrow- Thank A Mailman DayStuffed Mushroom Day and Homemade Soup Day

Next Wednesday -  Plimsoll Day and Umbrella Day


March 3 - World Book Day, Cold Cuts Day, What If Cats and Dogs Had Opposable Thumbs Day, Mulled Wine Day and National Anthem Day




Tuesday, February 2, 2016

Happy Groundhog Day!

Ever wonder how Groundhog Day got started, why weddings were traditionally in June, or why we hold elections in the fall? The timing of present-day rituals and holidays may be based on the calendars of the ancient Celts and other cultures! Read this explanation from The Old Farmer's Almanac.

The year was divided into four major sections, called quarter days. Then, each section was divided in half, creating four cross-quarter days. Together, these made an eight-part year that reflected the natural procession of the seasons.

The Quarter Days

The days that marked the four major divisions of the year were called Quarter Days; they originally marked the solstices and equinoxes, fitting readily into the rhythm of the ways people farmed. As the 12-month Roman calendar was adopted for both civil and religious purposes, all of the Celtic days began to conform more closely with the liturgical year of the Christian church and became identified with major religious festivals.
[Editors’ note: Historians are divided as to whether the ancient Celts observed the solstices and equinoxes (what we call quarter days). Some believe that the Celts divided the year into just four major sections: Samhain, Imbolc, Beltane, and Lughnasadh (what we call cross-quarter days). For this article, we will assume that the ancient Celts observed all eight divisions of the year.]

March 25, Lady Day

Around the time of the spring equinox, Lady Day became the traditional day for hiring farm laborers for the planting and harvesting seasons ahead. (In the church calendar, this day became the feast of the Angel Gabriel’s annunciation to the Virgin Mary that she would be the mother of Christ.)

June 24, Midsummer Day

Around the time of the summer solstice, this day was the midpoint of the growing season, halfway between planting and harvest. (The English church later celebrated this day as the birthday of John the Baptist, who foretold the birth of Jesus exactly six months later.)

September 29, Michaelmas

Around the time of the fall equinox, the harvest commenced on this day, and there were great fairs and festivals. This started the custom of early autumnal elections, because it was a convenient time for people to gather. Elections came to be shifted to November in the American climate, where the harvest season was more stretched out.

December 25, Christmas

This observance originated as a winter solstice festival and celebrated a time of resting and gathering fertility for a new round of sowing and reaping. The Celtic rituals merged easily with the Christian celebration of the birth of Jesus. Farm workers were usually paid for their year’s labor at Christmas, giving them reason to celebrate and three months rest before the next season.

The Cross-Quarter Days

These days marked the midpoint between a solstice and equinox. For the ancient Celts, these marked the beginning of each season, with the major two divisions being winter (Samhain), starting the dark half of the year, and summer (Beltane), starting the light half of the year.

February 2, Candlemas

Candlemas acquired its English name from the candles lit that day in churches to celebrate the presentation of the Christ Child in the temple of Jerusalem.
Originally, this day was called Imbolc (lambs’ milk) because the lambing season began. It was also called Brigantia for the Celtic female deity of light, calling attention to the Sun’s being halfway on its advance from the winter solstice to the spring equinox.
Weather and Planting
Much of this day is grounded in the seasons—estimating how soon spring-like weather will come and when to plant the crops.
  • It was not held as a good omen if the day itself was bright and sunny, for that betokened snow and frost to continue to the hiring of the laborers 6 weeks later on Lady Day.
  • If it was cloudy and dark, warmth and rain would thaw out the fields and have them ready for planting.
Our Groundhog Day is a remote survivor of that belief. Though we recognize animal behavior isn’t always the way to judge planting dates, the tradition continues, often with a wink and a smile.

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May 1, May Day

May Day, or Beltane, was the halfway point between the spring equinox and the summer solstice, and marked the beginning of summer for the ancient Celts. It was a day for dance and song to hail the sown fields starting to sprout.
Beltane was a time for the pairing of young couples, though not yet their wedding, which would not come until the next Cross-Quarter Day, after three months of seeing how they suited each other.
Today’s June weddings came from this tradition; given impatience of the couple, the waiting period came to be shortened to a six-week span.

August 1, Lughnasadh

Lughnasadh was the wedding of the Sun god Lugh to the Earth goddess, causing the ripening of crops.
  • The church transformed it into an offering from the first fruits of the land; the first loaves baked from the new wheat were offered at the Loaf Mass, which became corrupted in pronunciation to Lammas.

October 31, Samhain

Samhain (“summer’s end”), or Halloween, marked the beginning of winter for the ancient Celts, and many historians believe that it served as the start of the new year in the Celtic calendar. It was the day when the cattle were brought in from pasture; those needed for the winter’s supply of meat would be slaughtered. Since Samhain was the death-night of the old year, it came to be associated with ghosts and graveyards. It has happier associations too, such as apple bobbing, which was a form of telling fortunes for the new year.

We hope you found this history interesting! It’s amazing how today’s holidays reflect the rich fabric of our past.

Source: 

The 1993 Old Farmer's Almanac (with updates)
 

Monday, February 1, 2016

February is more than just Valentine's Day

Even though February is best known for Valentine's Day, there are many more things to celebrate.


A lot of these are included in the interesting days section of my blog posts, but not all of them. Plus, this Sunday is also Super Bowl 50. How about sending a card to a friend congratulating them if their team wins...or condolences if their team loses?

I'm holding card sending workshops this Saturday and Sunday at Dough Boy's Donuts here in Dublin, CA from 1:00 to 2:00. If you're not currently a SendOutCards customer and would like to find out how to send a couple of free cards to your friends and/or Valentine, either attend one of my events or email me at rick.tompkins@yahoo.com. Or check out my web page at www.sendoutcards.com/144087.

Interesting days





Next Monday - Laugh And Get Rich DayMolasses Bar DayKite Flying DayClean Out Your Computer Day and Opera Day. And in honor of Chinese New Year's, you can get a free egg roll at Panda Express